Umdwebi wenze uchungechunge lwezithombe ukuze "ahloniphe" abesifazane abangu-118 ababulawa amadoda.
Uthi ufuna abantu bakhumbule ukuthi izisulu “akusiwona amagama nje”. Iciko nomdwebi u-Henny Beaumont usebenzisana ne-Center for Women's Justice and the Femicide Census (uh, ini?!) ukuze kukhunjulwe abesifazane ababulawa amadoda (abesilisa kuphela) phakathi kukaMashi 2020 noMashi 2021.
Ake sithole okuthile okucace kakhulu kuqala:
Izisulu kufanele zikhunjulwe, futhi ukudweba kuyindlela enhle yokwenza lokho. Kuyinto enhle futhi emindenini elusizi. Bonke labo besifazane abapendiwe bafanelwe ukukhunjulwa nokubungazwa futhi bafanelwe ukuhlonishwa ngezinkumbulo zabo; amadoda ababulele bafanelwe ukujeziswa kanzima.
Pho, yini inkinga yami?
Ukusebenzisa ukufa kwalaba besifazane njengesikhali sepolitiki ukuqhakambisa imibono yabantu kwesokunxele kuyinto enengekayo. Ngisho noma ukhetha ukuhlonipha abantu besifazane kuphela hhayi zonke izisulu zokubulala, kulungile (ngicabanga), kodwa kungani kuhlonishwa kuphela abesifazane ababulewe ngamadoda? Kungani kuneqembu elithile labantu elisekelwe ebulilini?
Yilokhu okuthandwa ngabasele kodwa, ubulili buyisakhiwo somphakathi futhi akusho lutho ngaphandle kokuthi uyindoda yebo! Lo mculi uqondise ngqo wonke amadoda njengeqembu futhi awapende (uthethelele) njengabadlwenguli abanobudlova nababulali. Kufana nokuthi lo mculi ukholelwa ukuthi amadoda kuphela abulala abantu besifazane futhi akekho owesifazane emlandweni weplanethi owabulawa omunye wesifazane!
Newsflash, sithandwa:
Inqwaba yabesifazane ibulawe abanye abantu besifazane kanti nenqwaba yabesifazane nayo ibulewe ngabantu abashintsha ubulili!
Kodwa nansi i-kicker enkulu kakhulu ezokushaya ingqondo yakho:
Amadoda abulawe abafazi!
Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda azibulele ngenxa yabesifazane abaqambe amanga ngokuhlukumeza ngokocansi. Izigidi zabesilisa zilahlekelwe izingane zazo eNkantolo Yomndeni ngenxa yokuthi abesifazane abanobuqili beqamba amanga. Buphi ubulungisa babo?
Akuyona indaba yobudlelwano futhi, ubudlelwano bobulili obufanayo kanye nabashintsha ubulili sebuyinto evamile manje kodwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwasekhaya kusesenzeka.
Ake ucabange nje uma umdwebi edweba izithombe zabo bonke abelungu ababulawa abantu abamnyama, ungacabanga ukucasuka? Lokhu akuhlukile. Lokhu kuqondise amadoda njengeqembu futhi ithi wonke amadoda ayizilo ezinobudlova.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane akuyona inkinga yamadoda, inkinga yomuntu ngamunye, abanye abantu babulala abanye abantu. Abantu benza ubugebengu obunyantisayo, amathuba okuthi benze lobo bugebengu awaphezulu ngoba beyindoda, emnyama, e-Asia, eshintsha ubulili, yizitabane noma emhlophe.
Nakhu okusemqoka:
Umdwebi udelela labo besifazane abangu-118 ngokusebenzisa izinhlekelele zabo njengesikhali sezombangazwe. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi abaningi balabo besifazane bebengeke bafune ukuthi ukufa kwabo kusetshenziswe njengesikhali sezepolitiki sokukhomba amadoda njengeqembu.
Lokhu cishe kubi njengoba untanga we-Green Party u-Jenny Jones ethi akubeke wonke amadoda ngesikhathi sokubuya ekhaya ngo-6 ntambama ukugcina abesifazane bephephile emigwaqweni!
Lezi zinhlobo zemigilingwane yezishoshovu ezingakwesokunxele ziyimpande yokwahlukana phakathi kobulili nezinhlanga. Lokhu kuzofundisa amantombazane asemancane ukuthi wonke amadoda mabi futhi ayingozi, kodwa kwenzekani lapho lamantombazane amancane eba nendodana? Kwenzekani uma sebefuna indoda kodwa sebekhule besaba amadoda? Kwenzekani lapho umfana omncane efunda ukuthi uyinunu ngokuba nepipi?
Ukufaka imibono ebandlululayo ngeqembu labantu lilonke yilokho kanye abakwesokunxele abathi bayakuzonda (bakuthanda ngempela) futhi kuyindlela eqinisekile eya emphakathini ongakhiqizi, odabukisayo futhi oyingozi.
Kuyadabukisa!
Khumbula BHALISA kithi ku-YouTube futhi ukhalise leyo nsimbi yesaziso ukuze ungaphuthelwa yinoma yiziphi izindaba zangempela nezingahloliwe.
Chofoza lapha ukuze uthole ezinye izindaba zezepolitiki.
Sidinga usizo LAKHO! Sikulethela izindaba ezingahloliwe ze MAHHALA, kodwa lokhu singakwenza kuphela ngenxa yokusekelwa ngabafundi abathembekile njengalokhu WENA! Uma ukholelwa enkulumweni yamahhala futhi ujabulele izindaba zangempela, sicela ucabangele ukusekela umgomo wethu ngokuthi ekubeni umlandeli noma ngokwenza a umnikelo owodwa lapha. I-20% ye KONKE izimali zinikelwa kumakadebona!
Lesi sihloko singenzeka ngenxa yethu kuphela abaxhasi nabaxhasi!
By Richard Ahern - I-LifeLine Media
Contact: Richard@lifeline.news
Okubhekwayo
1) Udlame lwasekhaya ebudlelwaneni bobulili obufanayo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_lesbian_relationships
2) Ngipenda abesifazane abangu-118 ababulawa ngamadoda ngonyaka odlule: https://twitter.com/HennyBeaumont/status/1385873627803963393
3) Usopolitiki Uthi Beka WONKE Amadoda ku-CURFEW! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsqLzbkWM8A&list=PLDIReHzmnV8zPYTTBrvv0_KWVS0iBqyuo&index=4
Joyina ingxoxo!